North Carolina Personal Injury Glossary

Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress

Rudeness is not a lawsuit. Conduct so extreme that it goes beyond all bounds of decency, and that causes diagnosable emotional harm, can be. Here is what North Carolina requires.

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Definition
Intentional infliction of emotional distress is a civil claim against a person whose extreme and outrageous conduct intentionally or recklessly causes another person severe emotional distress. North Carolina courts recognize the claim, require all three elements to be proved, and generally apply the three-year limitations period in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 1-52.

Also called: IIED, intentional infliction of mental distress, tort of outrage

Most injury law is about carelessness. Intentional infliction of emotional distress, usually shortened to IIED, is about cruelty. It allows a person to recover for serious psychological harm, without any physical injury, when someone set out to cause that harm or acted with reckless indifference to the likelihood of causing it. Because nearly everyone has been treated badly at some point, the law keeps the claim narrow with demanding requirements.

People search for this term when they have been harassed, threatened, humiliated, or deliberately tormented and want to know whether the law offers a remedy. Joshua E. Palmer, Attorney at Law prepared this page to explain the elements North Carolina juries are instructed on, how severe emotional distress is proved, how the claim differs from negligent infliction of emotional distress, and how emotional harm is handled in an ordinary accident case.

What Is Intentional Infliction Of Emotional Distress?

It is an intentional tort: a civil wrong based on what the defendant meant to do or consciously disregarded, as opposed to a failure to be careful. The claim protects peace of mind. A defendant can be liable even though the defendant never touched the plaintiff, and the damages can include the cost of treatment, lost income, and compensation for the suffering itself.

The same conduct often supports other claims too, such as assault, battery, or defamation, and IIED is frequently pleaded alongside them. It is not a catch-all for hurt feelings. Courts dismiss many of these claims early because the conduct alleged, even if wrong, is not extreme enough.

What Are The Elements Of Intentional Infliction Of Emotional Distress In North Carolina?

North Carolina’s pattern jury instructions require the plaintiff to prove three things by the greater weight of the evidence. First, the defendant engaged in extreme and outrageous conduct, defined as conduct that exceeds all bounds usually tolerated by decent society. Second, the conduct was intended to cause severe emotional distress, or was recklessly indifferent to the likelihood that it would. Third, the conduct in fact caused severe emotional distress.

The first element is the hardest. Whether conduct can reasonably be regarded as extreme and outrageous is initially a question of law for the judge, and only if the judge says it can does the jury decide whether it was. Insults, indignities, ordinary workplace conflict, and bad manners do not qualify. Sustained campaigns of harassment, threats of violence, and abuse of a position of power over a vulnerable person are the kinds of facts that do.

Element What must be shown Who decides
Extreme and outrageous conduct Conduct exceeding all bounds usually tolerated by decent society The judge first, as a question of law; then the jury
Intent or reckless indifference The defendant meant to cause severe distress or disregarded the likelihood of it The jury
Severe emotional distress, in fact caused A severe and disabling emotional or mental condition resulting from the conduct The jury
The three elements of the claim in North Carolina

Based on North Carolina Pattern Jury Instruction, Civil 800.60. Each element must be proved by the greater weight of the evidence.

What Counts As Severe Emotional Distress Under North Carolina Law?

More than being upset. North Carolina defines severe emotional distress as an emotional or mental disorder such as neurosis, psychosis, chronic depression, phobia, or another severe and disabling condition of a type generally recognized and diagnosed by professionals trained to do so. Mere temporary fright, anxiety, disappointment, or regret is not enough.

No physical impact or physical injury has to be shown. The notes to the pattern instruction also record that medical testimony is not strictly required and that friends, family members, and others who observed the plaintiff can supply the proof. As a practical matter, though, treatment records and a diagnosis from a mental health professional are the strongest evidence, and a claim without them is difficult to win.

  • Enough: diagnosed depression, post-traumatic stress, a disabling anxiety disorder or phobia.
  • Not enough: embarrassment, anger, sleepless nights that pass, or general stress.
  • Helpful proof: counseling and medical records, prescriptions, and testimony from people who saw the change.

How Is Intentional Infliction Different From Negligent Infliction Of Emotional Distress?

The difference is the defendant’s state of mind. Negligent infliction of emotional distress requires only that the defendant was negligent, that severe emotional distress was a reasonably foreseeable result, and that the negligence caused it. It is the claim a family member may have after witnessing a loved one’s serious injury, and North Carolina juries are told to consider how close the plaintiff was to the event, the relationship between the plaintiff and the injured person, and whether the plaintiff personally observed what happened.

The distinction matters in North Carolina because of contributory negligence. In a negligence-based claim, a defendant who proves the plaintiff’s own negligence contributed to the harm defeats the claim, with the burden on the defendant under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 1-139. That defense does not excuse intentional wrongdoing or willful and wanton conduct. Intentional claims can also support punitive damages under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 1D-15, which requires fraud, malice, or willful or wanton conduct proved by clear and convincing evidence.

Can You Recover For Emotional Distress After A North Carolina Car Accident?

Yes, but usually not through this claim. A crash is almost always negligence, not intentional conduct. When a person is physically injured by someone else’s negligence, the emotional consequences of the injury, including anxiety, depression, and loss of enjoyment of life, are part of the pain and suffering damages in the ordinary injury claim. No separate emotional distress claim is needed.

A separate IIED claim becomes relevant in the unusual case where the conduct was deliberate, such as a driver who uses a vehicle to terrorize someone. North Carolina courts generally apply a three-year filing period to these claims, and the same advice holds: get treatment, keep records, and write down what happened while it is fresh.

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Joshua E. Palmer

Managing Partner · Joshua E. Palmer, Attorney at Law

Attorney Palmer concentrates in personal injury law and trained in North Carolina law at North Carolina Central University School of Law in Durham. This glossary explains the terms he uses with clients every day, in plain English and with the North Carolina rule that applies.

  • J.D., North Carolina Central University School of Law (Durham, NC)
  • Managing Partner, Joshua E. Palmer, Attorney at Law
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In Short

Key Facts About Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress in North Carolina

  • Intentional infliction of emotional distress requires extreme and outrageous conduct, intent or reckless indifference, and severe emotional distress that the conduct caused.
  • Conduct is extreme and outrageous only when it exceeds all bounds usually tolerated by decent society; a judge screens that question first.
  • Severe emotional distress means a severe and disabling emotional or mental condition, not temporary fright, anxiety, or disappointment.
  • No physical injury is required, but treatment records and a diagnosis are the strongest proof.
  • Contributory negligence, which bars negligence claims in North Carolina, does not excuse intentional or willful and wanton conduct.
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Common Questions

Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress: Frequently Asked Questions

What is intentional infliction of emotional distress in simple terms?
It is a lawsuit against someone whose behavior was so extreme and outrageous, and so deliberate or reckless, that it caused you severe emotional harm. Ordinary rudeness, insults, and conflict do not qualify.
What are the elements of IIED in North Carolina?
Three: the defendant engaged in extreme and outrageous conduct; the conduct was intended to cause severe emotional distress or was recklessly indifferent to the likelihood of causing it; and it did cause severe emotional distress.
Do I need a physical injury to sue for emotional distress in North Carolina?
No. North Carolina does not require physical impact, physical injury, or physical symptoms. You do have to prove severe emotional distress, meaning a severe and disabling emotional or mental condition, not temporary upset.
How long do I have to file an IIED claim in North Carolina?
North Carolina courts generally apply the three-year period in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 1-52. Related claims arising from the same conduct can have their own rules, so confirm your deadline with an attorney promptly.
Is emotional distress part of a North Carolina car accident claim?
Yes. When you are physically injured through someone else’s negligence, the emotional effects of the injury are included in pain and suffering damages. A separate intentional infliction claim applies only when the conduct was deliberate or reckless and outrageous.
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